Reason for relationship goals: Wonder what is a date night? When you started seeing your significant other, you likely went out on dates. Once you’ve been together for a long time, the number of dates often dwindles or stops altogether. Since your partner is to be treated as a Very Important Person, one of the best ways to do that is to keep the focus on dating by having a regular date night. Keep the romance alive, and give yourselves something to look forward to each week or each month.
A date night is a planned activity you and your partner. No children, family or friends. It is scheduled into your calendar days or weeks in advance and treated with the same priority as a work meeting. Your partner is the most important person in your life and this simple practice will help reinforce it.
My wife and I have a regular date night, Wednesday night, each week. We’ve been doing this for years now, and we both look forward to it. We either choose a restaurant or a movie, or sometimes both. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money if you are early on in your careers.
Some examples of where to go and what to do on your date include:
Take the time to understand what is a date night and write down your relationship goals. You'll be much more likely to commit to them if they are written down. This specific goal should not be a challenge for you to continue as you will both look forward to it. Now that you know what is a date night, it is important to keep the same day and time each week. If you deviate from this too much, before long, the tradition will discontinue.
Suggested Goal(s): Establish a date night, once a week/month.
Your Outrageous Goal: Continue date nights for the rest of your life, and spend extra time planning to make each date night extra memorable or unique.
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Last updated: February 15, 2020